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If they call, great; I know we can make plans and then it's on. I don't think you can do this with every girl though.Some chicks live for the cat and mouse, and they never want to be the cat.So I've been on the hunt for about 4 months now and something really fucking bizarre is happening. NOPE, before I could even say "Well I figured, but that's cool. There are some desperate mofos out there, lol So it's possible. I think in my experience, sometimes it's that they don't know what they're actually looking for. One doesn't have to be mean, while still being quick and direct. I don't even go down that road, if they aren't trying to make it happen after we meet, then there's no point in even try to throw that line out there telling them to call you some other time. You met someone and getting caught up in trying to make it happen when the other person isn't committed to getting together again is dumb. It's the learning to stop focusing on that one girl or encounter.Women I ask out are giving me their numbers (REAL numbers) and then give me the cold shoulder when I call/text. Now look, I've had this happen to me before in the past here and there but never this frequently. Have a nice day." she fucking offers her number to me. Originally Posted by iamshadowlark You might be scaring them off. If she has your number, she'll see you call or text and get back to you if she wants if not then move on. Although, I don't even think it's worthwhile to tell them later, after you night you met, to "call you when she's ready" - has that worked for you? Too many guys get caught up with the one girl thing instead of keeping it moving, meeting more and more women and choosing the ones that have interest in you.
So today my friends and I went to this restaurant again and of course she's there working. What I don't have an immunity for is girls giving me false hope when all they needed to simply say was "No" and I could have just said "Oh, that's cool. Have a nice day." and moved on immediately like I've literally said and done countless times before. It'd be hard to change this, since, let's face it, people try to avoid being direct to someone when it might invoke a strong reaction.
I usually am the one to hit a girl up at first and after we've kicked it a couple times, I let her seek me out. Last time I got a fake number was ages ago, I suppose it's harder now since people call each other on the spot to add each other.
Before, they could give you a random ass number (the one I got was for a flower shop lol, still remember haha).
It just makes no god damn sense what happened here. Couple days later Christmas is here, so I send her a Merry Christmas text. That's why you go by the rule "actions, not words" - giving a phone number is an action, but the actual level of commitment is really on the level of words. Let's keep in touch though, you never know." Then two days later she shows up wearing no panties and spends the night. Then after that she gives me the cold shoulder, and tells me she made a mistake. On the flip side, though, I've been ignoring this one girl's texts for the past week. Originally Posted by Arjen I'm guessing it's easier for them just giving their number be done with it and then ignore you. "Oh I like you, but I told this other guy I'd be exclusive with him.
Well the last thing we talk about is what we're going to do on a first date and she seems totally down. I send her another text telling her I have two days off and we can meet up any time during those days. Some people feel guilty and try to discharge it by doing stupid/misleading things. "Oh I like you, but I told this other guy I'd be exclusive with him.